March 03, 2010 
Will she ever come back?
Look, the odds are that she won't come back, at least not until this romance has run its course. I know you don't like that answer, but it is the HONEST one.
What you should do--DATE. Don't date "seriously" or with an eye towards a dramatic, permanent relationship, just DATE. Get back in the swing of things.
Take girls out to the movies, to dinner, dancing, to clubs...just get out there and have some FUN. If you can't find dates easily, go to SPEED DATING and see if you can't make a match there. Be honest with the girls you meet--tell them you just broke up, you don't want to be one of those whiners who cries all day about their ex, but you're a bit vulnerable after three years, and you'd just like to start off with some light, social fun to get back in the swing of things, and if something develops, well, great.
Here's the irony--if your ex sees you with a hottie having a blast, she'll probably want you back.
My advice? Don't take her back. It wasn't meant to be. She's easily swayed by a line of bull and the trappings of power within her little work sphere. I'm betting the guy she's dating is a bit higher in her work "food chain" than she is...
The one Bright Spot--you saved a few bucks on a Christmas present.
Here's a thought--take the money you would have spent on her, and donate at least some of it to a homeless shelter, a food pantry, or Toys for Tots.
Good luck--you'll get over this. You don't think so, now, but really--you will. You're better off having this happen NOW, than have it happen after you're married for four years with a kid or something.
She just wasn't "The One." You'll find "The One." Start looking, now!!!
itll be alright i know it is sooo hard to get over someone. i think once she realizes what she is missing from you she will come back.
but dont wait for her, i would move on and find others! and then when you find one, she will come crawling back and its your decision whether to let her in.
heart breaks are the worst thing, but stay strong you will be okay
Usually when couples "stray" eventually there is something missing in the relationship and one will find it in someone else. It is a terrible thing when others can't be honest in the first place then go act and then break your heart after but for that it is a matter of guilt for staying quiet which ends up being a problem.
It is hard to say if she will ask you back but start realizing if you get back together she might stray again and would you want to keep getting betrayed this way? You have to think it over if getting back together is what you both want, although the trust will be in question on your part for the rest of your time together.
I'd say just to give it some time. If your ex starts to miss you, you can both talk but if you do make up, slowly go there and don't jump in too fast all at once. You don't want to keep getting hurt by her, so remember that if you do eventually get into a relationship again.
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